There are people whose lives would have been better than it is now had they not allowed people’s wrong judgement stopped them but because they are afraid of what people would say chose to live a life different from the life of their dreams.
There are people who can’t walk freely and can’t talk freely because they are trying to avoid wrong judgements by people. If your life is that way I want to tell you this, you don’t need to continue living your life that way.
The first thing you need to understand is this, you were born alone, you were not born with people, so, your life should not depend on what people say about you. It doesn’t matter what the condemnations are, people are free to judge you wrongly that is their opinion, you should know that everyone has right to his opinion and everyone has right to say whatever he likes.
You were not chosen by anyone not even your parent. When your parents came together, it was their desires that brought them together but God deliberately formed you in your mother’s womb, so why should you allow people who don’t know how you were formed in the womb determine your life? Live your life according to the plan of God for you and ignore people’s wrong judgements and condemnations. No one can be responsible for the outcome of your life and no one is responsible for your success or failure, you are responsible for your success or failure, prosperity or poverty. If people tell you what to do and you do it it because you chose to live your life that way.
Nothing can work against you successfully except you allow it work against you. The wrong things people say against you can’t stop you and won’t come to pass except you allow them. Nobody can harm you or hurt you without your permission, it is the permission you give those opposing you, condemning and judging you wrongly that will make them win and make their condemnations and judgements prevail against your true desire and dreams.
Here’s God’s word for you;
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? Who shall bring a charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written: “For Your sake we are killed all day long; We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.” Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:28-39 NKJV
Since God your Maker and your Father is not condemning you why should you allow the condemnations by people stop you? Why should you enslave yourself to people’s opinion of you? You are Christ’s free man except you are not born again because everyone who is not born again is an automatic slave.
Be focus, focus on God, His words and His plans for you. Focus on your dreams and visions. You can make it, you can be very successful and should be. Be in charge of your life, don’t allow people take charge of your life. Be strong and always be bold to make decisions that will propel your life forward and in the right direction irrespective of who is in support of you or not.
Not having people supporting you doesn’t mean you are alone, no one is ever alone except the one who doesn’t have Jesus. If you have Jesus you have God with you, so, you are not alone.
Don’t allow anything throw you off balance in life.