Hello people of God, its a good morning today and i bring you the story of a brother and his experience on one of the major challenges christian singles and some even married ones face – Pornography and sexual addiction, i am believing God that this brother’s story will bless you greatly.
I was born into a Christian family in the early 80’s. well brought up and groomed by my parents.
I had the best of education and grew up among my peers. I knew peace, love and was focus in my studies until I discovered pornography in secondary school.
I still remember how one of my classmates brought a VHS cassette to school at the boarding house and that was what caught our attention and like they say, the rest is history.
This is a lesson for every Nigeria youth in secondary and university.
The devil can use anyone to influence and redirect your life, so be careful of the type of people you choose to be your friend.
I learnt the bitter way and I have paid the price.
I was involved in pornography for almost 11 years of my life that I was crowned the king of porn during my University days…peer pressure. Each time I passed through different boys hostels in our school, I was hailed and encouraged. A lot of students came to download and copy this porn to their phones and laptops. I had different collections of it then until I found help and with the help of God I was able to come out of from my. I must tell you it is the devils way of enslaving Christians into the pit of hell. You lost concentration as a result of uncontrollable use of porn, I thought negatively of all sorts of insane things, masturbation and womanizing actually became my hobby.
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I used to watch dozens of pornography films weekly that it became a habit for me that affected me psychologically and negatively. I tried a lot of countless times but couldn’t withstand it because I didn’t know how to do it. Then one day I decided to quit porn completely and just right away my life turned around for good with the help of Jesus Christ and that is what I want you to achieve too in 2015.
I stopped watching porn because I seek for help in the right places. I confided in my mentor about my predicament and my friend who is also a medical doctor in one of the Teaching Hospitals in Nigeria. He was able to take a history of my past activities and the circumstances surrounding my excessive crave and demand for porn and Unclothedness.
He had to place under special monitoring and developed a system that worked for me perfectly in checkmating my trigger points.
I also had to work hand in hand with a psychologist and life coach who I signed up under his tutoring classes.
I must tell you that cost me some money because those services didn’t come cheap.
But the results started showing up by second week. Within some few weeks of conscious effort to quit porn I was gaining confidence and seeing results. More concentration and good use of my time.
My dear friend, ever since I stopped watching pornography, I have been able to save money, get married and have a thriving business of my own.
My love life has improved greatly as well because I no longer live in the shadow of the past when I found it difficult relating to my girlfriend emotionally.
Pornography made me weak and sober after engaging in such a shameful acts.
If you are addicted to pornography, I urge you to consider quitting today in 2015.
Yes!
It is possible.
Take a pen and write your GOALS and action plan and together I will personal work with you to quit this terrible habit. Go for confession today in the church, talk to a respected man of God who will help in deliverance and counselling for you. Your life will change in so many positive way.
You will begin to connect with God and experience tremendous breakthrough and success. Remember your body is God’s temple, do not defile it.
I wish you fast recovery and total freedom from the addiction of pornography in Jesus Name.