TOPIC: DESTINY RELATIONSHIPS

Scripture: Proverbs 13: 20. He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Beloved, I welcome you to another Moment of Daily Encounter! Relationship are God’s instruments of introducing a smile on the faces of men. We have been considering various types of relationships.

Today, we shall yet consider another types of relationship which is referred to as destiny relationship.

As a matter of fact relationships that exists between man kind are:
1. General relationships
2. Seasonal relationships

3. Destiny relationships: As the name implies, destiny relationships folllows your destiny. These are relationships that are with you as long as you live here on earth!


Examples of destiny relationships are:
A. Marriage relationships
B. Businesses relationships
C. Ministry partners

Our ability to discern persons who they are will largely save us from missing out in this areas of relationship.

The unfortunate thing is that most believers don’t know this and as such treat every body the same way rather than investing their lives and times to profitable destiny relationships.

The occultic man understand this hence they approach a diviners for everyone that came into their lives to know the mission of that person.

Those that will not help them are quickly discharged and they are ready to keep anyone as long as he/she will be beneficial at the long run!

There are some destiny relationships that doesn’t make sense initially, but if you can discern enough to see tomorrow, you will invest into it and reap the harvest of your investment tomorrow.

Don’t expect fortune from relationships you have not invested into! Destiny relationships are like a farmer cultivating a crop.

He will have to be patient, carry out weeding after planting before expecting a harvest.

Examples of destiny relationships are:

1. The relationship between David and the four hundred men that came to meet him in the cave of Adullam (1Sam.22:1-3);


1 Samuel 22: 2. And every one that was in distress, and every one that was in debt, and every one that was discontented, gathered themselves unto him; and he became a captain over them: and there were with him about four hundred men.

These are men that God sent to David in the cave of Adullam! They came in their raw, unprocessed status. At this point David couldn’t get anything from them! So David began to invest into them and turn them to an army.

Most of the battles David fought, these are the men that fought it with him. Bible scholars said, David fought sixty six wars and loss none because this men were with him.

Beloved, how many person has God sent into your life because they have nothing to offer you at the moment you push them away?

There are men God sent them with the king maker anointing but you despise them because you are looking for results from big places. Most of us who are looking up to big name for results are the most frustrated person in Christian Life because we ignore the men sent into our lives.

The man may not have results that you are looking for but he carries the grace to solve your problem!

Don’t look down on any one because that which might be termed “good for nothing” at a certain time might be your deliverer tomorrow. Do you know David would have been killed prematurely if not one of this young men that came to his rescue.


2 Samuel 21: 16. And Ishbi-benob, which was of the sons of the giant, the weight of whose spear weighed three hundred shekels of brass in weight, he being girded with a new sword, thought to have slain David. 17. But Abishai the son of Zeruiah succoured him, and smote the Philistine, and killed him. Then the men of David sware unto him, saying, Thou shalt go no more out with us to battle, that thou quench not the light of Israel.

Observed the Bible speak of Abishai, that was one of the man that came to David as a Debtor. He stayed with David n the cave of Adullam and grew up to be a mighty warrior and one of the top rank officer in David’s army. He had been with David for several years as a destiny partner, he was the instruments God used to rescue David from untimely death.

In destiny relationships, you build it with person or people that will eventually become profitable to you in life.

This is the reason it seems some persons who were one time under you rose up to forget you because when you were supposed to make impact and invest into their lives you did not and now God has helped them up, even though you may know them before but because you are not part of their growth process, they have the right to forget you. Listen to me child of God: No river forget it’s source! Anyone you made a genuine investment into their lives will never forget you no matter how long it is.

So when you see potential in men that are hanging around you, help him up and that becomes a long life destiny relationship!


Remember this: Heaven is real and hell is real. The decision to spend eternity with God is best made now. Give your heart to Jesus today.

Prayer points:
– Father thank you for your word to me today.
– Father, help me to recognize and maintain destiny relationship in the name of Jesus.

Prophetic Declaration:
– I prophesy the release of God sent man into your life this season in the name of Jesus.
– Wisdom to identify the right relationship to invest in receive it now in the name of Jesus.

Assignment: Identity someone you will enter a destiny relationship with and be willing to keep the relationship no matter what it cost.

From your brother Alex
God bless you.

By Matthew

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